When Oh WHEN will I be famous . .

article-1249012-082D014B000005DC-464_468x536The OBSESSION to devalue yourself and it’s relevant SOLUTIONS will be the core theme of our NEXT SUNDAY SEMINAR SUNDAY October 5th 2014 : 


Understanding CODEPENDENCY patterning * Releasing Addictive thinking * Writing a 70 word Biography of yourself  * Unravelling negativity that authority figures told you about yourself – and you are still believing * REBIRTHING BREATHWORK for Emotional Release * Tackling Jealousy and Envy * Pushing yourself FORWARD  * Dealing with criticism * Sibling Rivalry   * Improved Adult Communications

JOIN US on at the very sensible time of 12noon -8pm ( perfect for late risers, out-of-towners and party peeps ) at our NEW VENUE just a 5 min walk from VICTORIA STATION LONDON. http://www.lightcentrebelgravia.co.uk

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( Co -Founder Of URBAN LIFECLASS Dickie Beau will be busy prepping his NEW SHOW at the Barbican so is unavailable this month. ) GO SEE! http://www.barbican.org.uk/theatre/event-detail.asp?ID=16253

WELCOME if you are new to Personal Development, Groupwork or Breathwork. We don’t do special languages, New Age stuff or talking sticks. Other groups do those things so much better than us. We are just a bunch of peeps willing to change habits, addictions and depleting toxic relationships. If you are new, one of our team can contact you if you wish to answer questions. We don’t sell anything, or sign anyone up, we leave the choice up to you. You don’t need to be a Performer, Pop Singer or even Creative, just willing to check out your life and how you can change the impact of all your relationships.

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Yes, there really is a site called http://www.iwannabefamous.com/ so I trawled through some of the comments to detect the hearts and minds of those who are unhappy with being sidelined by paps. The site mission statement stated : “Being famous is not so bad after all. Sometimes fame and brings fortune (sic), but other times it brings headaches. Once you are famous you will need an agent, a photographer, a bodyguard, an accountant, a therapist, a lawyer, and perhaps a good plastic surgeon”.

So there you have it, and you don’t even have to read HEAT magazine. All the info you need to be famous IS HERE. The site gives the opportunity for an un-famous ordinary person to spout why they have a need to reach CELEBRITY status. This will amuse or create rage at the society we have created. Here it is unedited.

xfactoruk” I wanna be famous because i wanna change the world. i want to be that role model to people of all ages. most celebrities these days are caught up so much in the money and divorces and lawsuits. i want to do the opposite with my fame, bring a positive approach to it. donate my richs to charities, i love signing autographs and taking pictures. i have an outgoing personality and God has aloud me to already meet so many people but im not satsfied yet i want to do something big with the crazy outgoing personality hes blessed me with. i’m unique, funny, caring, and outgoing. i dont want to be like all these celebrities who get caught up in the fame and money. i relate to all sorts of people..i’m just waiting for a break to hit big. id love to have my own tv show or talk show “.

Maybe I’m picky but having read this diatribe of ambition they may need to add grammar and a spelling coach to the list of lawyers and therapists required to survive the day. No wonder Blair famously blared out ” Education, Education, Education “. Not that anyone listened. Thinking that FAME will create happiness and freedom is foolhardy, but the likes of X Factor drivel only stoke the fire of illusion in the hearts of the young. One comment on the above story said ” I wanna be famous because, i want people to know who i am, and what i am good at. I love acting and modelling (sic) I don’t have much experience, but i’m passionate about acting, so i consider myself as a great actress! I would love to have the opportunity …


A lot of writers, artists, performers and creative’s DO create work they love but HALT on putting the results out there. Fame hungry one day, hiding under the duvet the next. Valuing yourself and your work is such a yo-yo creation that understanding the structure of CODEPENDENCY is vital. It is no longer about being in a traditional version of an unhealthy relationship. YOUR RELATIONSHIP with CAREER, FAME, MONEY & SELF will contain aspects of fear, fixing, rescuing, procrastination and perfectionism in order to SHOW UP, and many think they aren’t quite ready to do that.

FAME is just reward for hard work and determination but this drive for fame for fame’s sake is as hollow as a chocolate egg. I don’t need fame to know who I am, or how I feel. I don’t seek the approval of others in order to feel good, worthy or sane all I need is an affirmation I created for myself in 1988 : I am my own fabulous Celebrity. Yes it’s true, even if it’s only me that thinks so. No paps please.